7 Things Every Couple Should Know About House Helps.
1. The phenomenon of house helps is one that may find very difficult to handle. You must learn about it.
2. Many house helps comes untrained and are sometimes unruly. They must be trained and even tamed.
3. The wife is the one who will usually deal with the help. She must thus be fair and firm in her dealings.
4. Be aware that female house helps may pose a sexual danger in the house for your husband. As such you must take certain precautions and institute some measures:-
a. Let her dress properly e.g. wear bras, no wearing of sexy shorts, transparent nighties etc.
b. When the house help is male, the wife must be careful of what she wears in his presence.
c. The female house help must not replace the wife in any way. Note that a gradual replacement in any form can become permanent replacement.
d. This is because service is beautiful, so has the house help continues to do it for the husband she gradually becomes attractive for him.
5. Don’t easily dismiss stories if affairs between a husband and the maid. These things are real.
6. Some maids come into the home with an agenda to take over. This may be physical or spiritual (wizards and witches). You must therefore be very spiritual in choosing a house help.
7. In spite of all the negatives things that can be said about maids/helps, a good one is very helpful for your continued activities in church and I other areas and also to help fulfill all your other roles.(Colossians 4:1, Genesis 30:11-12).
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